Tuesday 30 October 2018

WHY MEN DON'T LIKE TO SAY IT FIRST...




Being in a relationship was not something Temiloluwa was ready for. Although she had many guys on her case, she always told them that she was not ready. She met Opeyemi during a program and they got talking. Opeyemi thereafter requested that they become friends and she was so cool with him because he was different from the guys who just wanted to be in a relationship with her.  After 2 years of being friends, he told her of his interest and that he wanted her to be his wife. 

For the many people who knew, Temiloluwa had never been in a relationship with anyone. Their friendship  became really deep and it became clear that Temiloluwa was going to accept to be with Opeyemi. The moment Temi said yes to Ope, he could not keep it to himself. He told everyone about how excited he was because the girl he really loved had agreed to get into a relationship with him. Ope without wasting any time, introduced Temi to his parents and they were more than happy to have her as a future daughter in-law. 

Temiloluwa and Opeyemi had gotten really deep in their relationship and had in fact addressed a lot of things. Ope told Temi that his intention was to get married to her because he was sure that she was the right person for him and Temi was excited about this as well. The love between these two was sincere and real and everyone around them could tell that they were a perfect bunch.

Three years had gone bye and they were still as lovey dovey as they were when they began the relationship. They had grown, become more fond of each other and they seemed to talk about everything. Opeyemi was an introvert but also a very handsome boy. There was just something about him that attracted a lot of girls to him. Although Temi was not insecure (she had a lot of male friends and toasters as well), she adviced him to be careful and not to get carried away with the love and attention he was getting from these girls.

In their fourth year, Temi began to notice some changes in Ope. He had stopped doing the things that he used to do in the first three years of their relationship. She noticed that she was no longer a priority and this really got her upset. She decided to talk to him about it but he wasn't willing to agree that he had changed.

To be continued ...

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OneLove,

SomzyBrown 

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