Dear Mr. & Mrs.:
1. Jealousy is illogical but your partner has rights of a basic sense of entitlement and protection over you.
2. Never hype any person of the opposite sex above your partner.
3. Your partner's emotion is your primary responsibility, handle with care.
4. Your partner's reaction should become the compass of your watchfulness. Don't dismiss it, think about it.
5. Make conscious effort of commending your partner easily.
6. Every other day, find one thing useful to do for your partner.
7. Make sure nobody anywhere is demonstrating more care for your partner than you do; it is you they got married to and that is your role.
8. Stop expecting more than you are giving; invoke their love by giving it.
9. Invest love in a way that harvesting it is easy.
10. Do not force your position on anything on your partner. Engage their mind so that they can understand your point. In essence, communicate, do not try to command and control.
11. Your partner will subconsciously compare how you treat them vs. outsiders, remember this.
12. Consciously treat your partner above your best treatment to everyone else.
13. Make a habit of hyping your partner to their hearing and especially when talking about them to everyone else.
14. Every partner struggles with the thought of 'How valuable' they are to you, don't worsen this by your words or conduct.
15. It is your responsibility to make sure your partner has no doubts about their place in your life.
16. Never respond to your partner's doubt with anger, listen carefully, get their point. You will either clarify or fix the issue.
17. Re-evaluate your relationships; are you fueling your partner's doubt or deepening their assurances?
18. If you stop being deliberate, marriage will not only become a bore, it will DIE.
19. Your partner is entitled to be jealous over you! You belong to them, period.
20. If you take their jealousy rights away, you have in effect ended the oath.
21. Overlook many things and don't confront unless it is absolutely necessary to address things that they have failed to address through your patience or body language.
22. Don't choke them because you 'own them', be mature about your rights.
Your Bro,
Ocholi Okutepa
Thank you so much for stopping by, we hope you've learnt a thing or two. Please feel free to drop your comments. God bless you.
OneLove,
SomzyBrown.
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