Tunde and Bunmi began their relationship on the 4th of September 2015. They really loved each other and were excited to be in each other’s arms. Their relationship was very interesting as they shared almost everything together. Bunmi had an idea that Tunde really loved her and she was really excited. Bunmi had been through somethings which she referred to as ‘bad experiences’ and she just was not in the mood to go through that again. However Tunde looked too good to do any of such to her.
“Tunde is a lovely and sweet person” Bunmi said. “He is actually the sweetest guy I have ever met. He is cool and calm. He is handsome and very smart. Oh my gosh! His wisdom is not even of this world. He is as gentle as a dove and very caring” she continued. Tunde was all these to her and many more and she was happy about making the decision to be with him. They grew close in no time and their relationship felt like heaven on earth.
Painfully, in less than a year the butterflies began to disappear and this was about Bunmi. She started acting up and Tunde could not understand what was going on. She had been through somethings which made her feel insecure and this was the same reason why she had been in 10 relationships. She has found it really difficult to trust any guy because according to her “they are all the same”. She could sense that Tunde was quite different from the 9 others but she had her fears. She had a desire to get married (at least someday) but how was this going to happen with all these insecurities? Only God has an answer to this.
Although Bunmi was not double-dating, she was beginning to have a second thought about their relationship. She remained a dutiful girlfriend but had other plans which Tunde had no clue about. There were other guys who had shown interest in her while she was in a relationship with Tunde and although she turned them down, she did not hesitate to keep them as friends. Common! Bunmi was and still is a beautiful lady with all them figure-eight right in your eyes. She was and is a very attractive lady even though encumbered with a lot of insecurities.
She soon got ‘extremely’ tired of the relationship and just wanted to end it already. She really had no genuine reason but she just felt that it was not going to work out between them. She felt Tunde was too nice and would leave her for someone else. But how does someone get to such conclusion? Only Bunmi has an answer to that to be honest. What had happened to all the nice and lovely comments about how unique and different Tunde is?
Tunde was not willing to let go of her and he really wanted to know what he could do to make the relationship enjoyable for both of them. She finally decided to say “I don’t feel loved, Tunde”. This was obviously a lie because everyone including Bunmi knew that Tunde loved Bunmi with the whole of his heart. This was evident in his actions and reactions towards her.
Tunde asked her for what she wanted or what he could do to show how much he loved her. Bunmi who knew that this was not a sincere reason for wanting to break up with Tunde told him that there was nothing he could do to make her feel the love she wanted to feel.
Bunmi was not a perfect girl but she was cool. He had put in a lot into their relationship and was not willing to let go so quickly or even at all. Tunde was tired of being in different relationships and so he looked forward to having this one be his last relationship. Bunmi was ‘too stubborn’ for him but he was willing to learn how to understand why and how to handle her ‘stubbornness’. Tunde made promises upon promises and gave Bunmi plenty assurances that he was never going to break her heart.
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“Tunde is a lovely and sweet person” Bunmi said. “He is actually the sweetest guy I have ever met. He is cool and calm. He is handsome and very smart. Oh my gosh! His wisdom is not even of this world. He is as gentle as a dove and very caring” she continued. Tunde was all these to her and many more and she was happy about making the decision to be with him. They grew close in no time and their relationship felt like heaven on earth.
Painfully, in less than a year the butterflies began to disappear and this was about Bunmi. She started acting up and Tunde could not understand what was going on. She had been through somethings which made her feel insecure and this was the same reason why she had been in 10 relationships. She has found it really difficult to trust any guy because according to her “they are all the same”. She could sense that Tunde was quite different from the 9 others but she had her fears. She had a desire to get married (at least someday) but how was this going to happen with all these insecurities? Only God has an answer to this.
Although Bunmi was not double-dating, she was beginning to have a second thought about their relationship. She remained a dutiful girlfriend but had other plans which Tunde had no clue about. There were other guys who had shown interest in her while she was in a relationship with Tunde and although she turned them down, she did not hesitate to keep them as friends. Common! Bunmi was and still is a beautiful lady with all them figure-eight right in your eyes. She was and is a very attractive lady even though encumbered with a lot of insecurities.
She soon got ‘extremely’ tired of the relationship and just wanted to end it already. She really had no genuine reason but she just felt that it was not going to work out between them. She felt Tunde was too nice and would leave her for someone else. But how does someone get to such conclusion? Only Bunmi has an answer to that to be honest. What had happened to all the nice and lovely comments about how unique and different Tunde is?
Tunde was not willing to let go of her and he really wanted to know what he could do to make the relationship enjoyable for both of them. She finally decided to say “I don’t feel loved, Tunde”. This was obviously a lie because everyone including Bunmi knew that Tunde loved Bunmi with the whole of his heart. This was evident in his actions and reactions towards her.
Tunde asked her for what she wanted or what he could do to show how much he loved her. Bunmi who knew that this was not a sincere reason for wanting to break up with Tunde told him that there was nothing he could do to make her feel the love she wanted to feel.
Bunmi was not a perfect girl but she was cool. He had put in a lot into their relationship and was not willing to let go so quickly or even at all. Tunde was tired of being in different relationships and so he looked forward to having this one be his last relationship. Bunmi was ‘too stubborn’ for him but he was willing to learn how to understand why and how to handle her ‘stubbornness’. Tunde made promises upon promises and gave Bunmi plenty assurances that he was never going to break her heart.
Thanks for stopping by always, please stay with us and we shall be back next week.
OneLove,
SomzyBrown.
Great job Abigail! Can't wait to see how this one ends.
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