There is a saying "Heaven helps those who help themselves". I'm not sure where or how we came about this saying but it is very relevant to our topic today.
Many times and almost Everytime, you are the only one that can help yourself get out of toxic or unhealthy relationships. People around you can say anything, give all the right or wrong advices but guess what? The decision is left for you to make. You have to help yourself come out from any choking or toxic relationship.
Everyone has an opportunity to get it right maritally (especially if you involve God) and if you're patient enough to allow Him give you the 'go ahead' or tell you not 'to go ahead'. Sometimes you hear Him tell you through your conscience that that guy or lady would not treat you right if you get married or is not right for you but the pressure from parents or friends make you ignore it. Many times, you see signs, 'scary signs' that you shouldn't ignore but you consider what people would say and then you decide to go ahead with it anyway.
I always tell people that praying about who to get married to or whether to say yes to a particular man or ask the woman out is not as difficult as many people say it is. Truly, God will not come down from heaven to tell you to get married to someone..His voice might not even be loud but consider how you talk to Him normally (if you do). Situations like this are not different from other issues that you take to Him. He follows a pattern most times, so watch out for those patterns concerning this issue on whether to go ahead with him/her.
Involve God even before you say yes but if you've already said yes or gone ahead without involving him, it's not the end! Involve him now and let him lead and direct you as to whether to go on with this guy/lady. Even after God directs you as to whether or not to go on, remember that the choice is yours.
God is always willing to help so involve Him always so as to avoid stories that choke.
Happy new month guys. It is my prayer that we all will experience and share good news in Jesus name.
Thanks for stopping by. God bless you real good.
OneLove,
SomzyBrown.
Very important advice
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