Today, we continue with the 10 things that men love...
6. MEN LOVE TO BE PRAISED: Candidly, I love praising men, the praise of man is my natural territory! When I noticed it almost landed me in trouble as men kept giving the chase, I stopped it altogether and focused on my husband. If you are a man-praiser, you will never lack a man's love all your life! You will be pampered, loved and cherished! I've never met a single man who does not respond to praise! Stingy, selfish, bitterly critical women who see nothing good in their men never have lasting marriages! Praise your husband silly! Appreciate his efforts in your life. Look out for his good qualities and sing it in his ears daily! I love praising my husband, it gives me deep pleasure doing so, he sure deserves it and he enjoys listening to it.
7. RESPECT HIM: Ladies who shout at their fiance, order him around and disgrace him in public because she has a masters degree in international marketing will stay a long long time as single before she finds an old man to marry! You must be humble if you want to be under any man's roof! Respect is the food of every man. Learn to respect your fiance, show honour to your husband. Saying "yes sir" when appropriate won't make you less of a woman! Learn how to talk to a man. Some women just don't know how to talk! Never correct him in public, don't send him on an errand in front of his friends, stop making jest of him in front of the children, it's bad!!!
8. SUBMIT TO HIM: God states it clearly, "wives, submit to your husbands." Submit your body and other things when he needs them. If you have any trouble with that, ask God, not me. Why was Abraham madly in love with Sarah? She didn't allow her exceptional beauty to make her proud, she was a very submissive, respectful wife who called her husband "Lord." Submission is also not just about the things you say but the way you act. You can say Lord but still not be submissive.
9. SUPPORT: Men want women who can support whenever they need help. Render help to your husband even before he asks for it. Be willing to and ready to support your husband whether things are rosy or not. Please do not leave him to handle his problems by himself. He got married to you for a reason and this is one of your roles in his life as a HELPER.
10. MEN GO THROUGH SEASONS: The season of little, the season of managing, the season of abundance! No man wants a woman who runs away when he has challenges only to show up when he has made it and has millions flowing in his account!
Men are not difficult at all. These and more are what makes a man tick, thrive and enjoy the woman he has vowed to spend the rest of his life with. Can you be that kind of woman? Do you have what it takes to make your husband happy and fulfilled? Think about it.
Dr. Becky Enenche
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