There are so many questions these days around the amount of time, number of weeks, months, years that is adviceable to be in a relationship for before getting married. Many wonder if there is a set time for this and I'll talk about this below.
Marriage is very important and it's highly necessary to know certain things about a prospective spouse. In order to do this, it is important that you spend quality time with the person cos only then would you really find out things that you need to know (especially whether the person matches your desires or is your spec).
However, there is no set time to when you should get married to someone you've been in a relationship with. I don't advice really long relationships (i.e. 4 years) even though some of these have led and could lead to marriage. There are people who only get into a relationship and stay for a year and gbam they feel ready to get married.
As long as you've done your due diligence about this potential spouse well, prayed and asked God to reveal things that you need to know and you're sure that you will love to spend the rest of your life with this person then I believe you're good to go. This could be for 6 months, 1 year or more but the bottom line is that you're surely willing and ready to spend the rest of your life with this person.
I guess from the above we have answered the question that there is really no set time on how long you should date or be in a relationship with someone before you get married. Also please don't be a time waster, I beg you in the name of God. If you know the relationship is going no where, why are you deceiving him or her by staying in it? Call it off if you're sure you can never get married to the person. No one deserves to be given false hopes please.
Thank you so much for stopping by. God bless you real good.
OneLove,
SomzyBrown
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