Hello beautiful and amazing readers, supporters, encouragers. Thank you so much for stopping by today again. Two weeks ago, I shared a write-up written by a relationship and marriage counsellor. We were to continue with it last week but it was International men's day and so we used that opportunity to celebrate the men. We are back to where we stopped two weeks ago and I really hope that you are blessed by the continuation post below:
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Babe&Bros,
Let's talk frank talk!!
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10. O baby, I know your drive and success, but trust me, from Bible to Africa, if a man cannot lead you, you aren't supposed to marry, AT ALL! Perhaps, some humility and submission lessons in Sunday school would do you a world of good.
11. Look at you, "Daddy's boy", & "Mummy's girl", if we follow the Bible, those two are meant for your past in order of priority when marriage comes. 'For this cause a man shall LEAVE'. The cleaving will be required between spouses alone.
12. Babe, I think you should be afraid of a man who doesn't listen to any message on relationships, nor reads books in that line and 'knows it all'. His elder brothers are those who have damaged marriages all over the place; men who should lead rightly but who are too empty and don't know it and are too proud to learn.
13. Don't let anyone deceive you, marriages may fail everyday but it is not the same for all of us! Whilst no one is perfect by all means, a lot of homes are built on God's perfect principles and you can aim for the same.
14. Get in the garage and find a gauge. Gauge your temperance and tolerance, if you aren't working on it and seeing improvement, you could make marriage hard on yourself and the one you love.
15. What has been the common issue between you and all your friends? What have people complained about you the most? Stop defending yourself and ask real questions? Are they all so wrong or I need to check me?
16. All your pretense will end with marriage if you don't end it now. God will plant someone so close to your reality you won't have time to wear the mask.
17. My sister, my brother, except you don't want to ever get married, improving your character is not an option, it is a core course.
18. Guy, thank her for her understanding and for not being materialistic, but don't plan on staying financially humble, that's unfair to all the prophecies God has given her for the future. Work and give her even what she won't ask for!
19. If you are still single, congratulations!!!
You can still get it right. Be true to yourself, be honest with your future and be kind enough to your destiny!
Mr. Ocholi Okutepa
Thank you once again for stopping by, God bless you.
OneLove,
SomzyBrown
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