DO MEN HAVE EMOTIONS???

We live in a world where women are not only believed to be the ones who can express emotions but also the ones who have emotions. But is this true? No! Men have emotions! Men can be emotional too! Yes they are built and told by society not to cry and to 'man up' but like women, they can feel, touch, cry, laugh, be sad, be happy etc.

Today's writeup is supposed to be the concluding part of last week's write-up but I came across another write-up which is about the men and being that today is International men's day, I  thought it appropriate to share with you all. Before you read the post, i'ld like to plead that we appreciate the men in our lives. I know that some of them might have hurt us but there are still good ones who need to know that they are good and that they matter in this world. The next paragraph introduces you to the write-up and I really do hope you learn from it. 

...Men Have Pains Too....

 A woman said to me, 'It took me years to really know that men cry too.  I took my husband for a super human.  I see him leave the house everyday and come back providing for us.  One day as I had left the house and he was at home,  I remembered that I needed to take something along,  I turned back and headed home.  As I got home,  I tried going through the back  door which was closer to the window of our room. 

Lo and behold,  I heard my husband crying like a baby asking God to help me get a job so I can help him fend for the family.  He has never complained to me before but that day,  I broke down in tears realizing that my husband has held much of his pains alone"  

A young married lady went to her mother and complained that her husband has not always bought things she wanted from him. The mother asked her, 'How many of those things have you bought for yourself?". She stayed quiet and said, 'But he is my husband?". The mother replied her, 'Have you ever found out the things your husband wants you to buy for him?". 

Men always try to hide their pains. 

A woman was invited to preach at women conference and as she was preaching,  she asked all the working class women to stand out.  They humbly did.  And she asked them, 'When you get your salary, how much do you give to your  husband as a seed?". Before your money gets to anywhere else, the priest in your life which is your husband should get something from you.  Even if he is a rich man,  sow a seed in his life.  Sometimes,  we women don't know that our husbands need something from us". 

Men can be financially broke and pretend to have everything.

Most men are married but they live lonely lives.  Sometimes, ask your husband out.  Men are not always as busy as women think. You have to understand that your husband has pains and needs too.  Don't judge him by his incapability to provide the things you want from him.  Sometimes,  he might not have the things you want. 

Men also have emotional needs and problems. Men still cry for love.

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From the post by Okwuosa Maryann on Instagram.

Thank you so much for stopping by to read our post this week. We look forward to seeing you next week. Please once again, appreciate the men around you and let us be reminded that they have emotions and they also deserve to be treated right.

OneLove,

SomzyBrown.