Femi kept showing signs of willingness and desire to make Bimbo his wife. He was a good man but Bimbo had so many fears, especially the jilting fears. She had prayed for someone like him but she was unsure as to whether he would change or whether he would truly keep to his words and go ahead to get married to her. After so much persistence and assurance, Bimbo decided that she would get married to him. Femi is a good man and she is glad that he came through and that she made the decision to be with him.
Back to the question - Are there still good men out there? This question is one that a lot of people either ask themselves or those around them. Although the topic focuses on men, the same question could be asked for women. A lot of people have been hurt and based on the hurt they have experienced, they jump to the conclusion that "all men are bad" or "all women are terrible". It is this conclusion that pushes people to settle for less. I know that it could be frustrating to meet terrible or bad people but it is not safe to assume that every man or every woman is like that.
I have met many good men and many great women. This is not to dispute the fact that some people act in certain ways that are unbecoming and should never be heard of. However, would we because of these people give up on marriage or come to the conclusion that there are no good men or women out there? NO! Yes we need to be careful, prayerful and watchful but as we can see from Bimbo's story, there are still good men out there.
Our advice to you is not to give up at all. It may appear like time is ticking and nothing is happening but trust me, if you hold on and you can trust God, you will not be put to shame. Please do not because of what people will say or because of the fear that no better man or woman would come, settle for less. Be patient and do not give up. Your good man or woman would come soon in Jesus name. Amen.
Thank you so much for staying with us on this. God bless you.
OneLove,
SomzyBrown
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