Chuks attended the same wedding that Tomide invited me to. Tomide's younger sister was getting married and so Tomide extended the invitation to few of his friends. Chuks was Tomide's colleague and very good friend. I am also Tomide's close friend. We attended the same secondary school and remained close since that time.
There was a table reserved for Tomide's friends (as per big brother duties) and it so happened that Chuks and I sat next to each other. We chatted all through the wedding and I believed in my heart that I had found an amazing friend in Chuks. Our chats did not end at the wedding, we exchanged numbers and continued after the wedding.
I had suddenly gotten attached to Chuks that if a day went by without talking to him, it felt like something was missing. We are still good friends till date and guess what? We got married to each other.
I shared the above story to encourage us to be open this year. Please be open to friendships and meeting people no matter how random because you never know which relationships would lead to your miracle. Not all meetings like this will lead to marriage but we all need to decide to be open. It's not all about getting married but about building relationships. You can meet people anywhere and under any unexpected circumstance so let's be open.
To give more insight, Jennifer was served breakfast few weeks to Tomide's sister's wedding. She was really sad and bitter about it because she was hopeful that things would work between her and her ex-boyfriend but she was wrong. While trying to heal, she made up her mind to stay away from guys/men. She had made plans to just attend and leave the wedding after a few hours to continue in her sober mood but then she met Chuks.
Imagine if she had allowed her experience rob her of the lovely relationship with Chuks. So you just never know. Make friends, be open and don't carry issues on your head. Everything will be fine las las.
Thanks for stopping by, God bless you all. We'll see soon by God's grace.
OneLove,
SomzyBrown.
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